let it rain...

oh ma..

Child and the Family..

What is your relationship with your child..?
Is it one of lack or abundance..?
Which ever it is, what ever you focus on is exactly what you will get back.
Early Childhood should be a happy period in a child's life.
It is important,otherwise the habit of being unhappy can be developed,which is hard to change.
Today husband and wife work in separate jobs sharing their income.
The family provides social and psychological stability.
It is a small group with strong emotional attachments.
Children develop their basic personality,characteristics,language,culture and how to relate to other people through the experiences provided in the family.
The Family is the basic unit of society which consists of two or more adults living together in a house with kids.

The Family that prays together stays together..

Joys and Sorrows of Parenthood..

Ask yourself 'Where is your parent hood..?'

Take an honest look at, whether your parenthood is a friend or a foe.
If its a friend, spend some quiet time this listening to what your still small voice is trying to tell you and reflect upon it.
The experiences that parents share with their children play a vital role in the development of their child.
Any mal-adjustment between parent and child relationship forms as emotional disturbance in the child.
It is normal to find changes in parent child relationship in early childhood due to many causes..
Three vital stages of parents role in development of their child in Early Childhood are :
1.Parents have to face the responsibilities of Parenthood.
2.When the child is an infant parents should cater to the needs of the child, make the environment such that the child confides in the parents.
3.When the child is at PreSchool stage parents must prepare the child for seperation and help him to establish himself as an individual in the world.

Enjoy Parenthood...give our children social and psychological stability.

KISS ME GOOD NIGHT

The moon started hanging down the sky...

come in to my room...!

entering in to fresh white gown,
peeping in to the mirror,
smiling in to the face..
..the lively glance of dark brown eyes
longed to put my arms about him..

Dear..have you thought about -
the separation
that coming to live with us..?
The quality of silence,
The quandity of measured happiness,
The dignity of life without Orders..?

I will leave my door open.
If you were dead,
then memory would be all that I have.
When will you go..?
All right,"if that's the way you want it _ "

Ok..then kiss me Good night,
I never knew Patience will be the death of me.
my feet are cold,my fingers are chill..
my comfort and pleasure -warm blanket
drew them about my head...!

It was not the moment of argument......!

A LETTER TO MY FRIEND - 2

Dear Ann,

I think I long to see you and wish no blame to fall on me.
I have never told our heavenly secret,
burried secretly at the tip of this pen.
I wonder how you live with memories,
who had partner and have no more now.
My heart is already hammering on my chest..
and now it is the time to reveal.
yes, I tell you because he has gone away to live peacefully,
and you know.. we have always been honest one with the other.

As we walked down our native place,
down the trees and olden thoughts
there I paused to consider whether
I should tell him and decided,
I can wait until it is time for him to know,
how costly a cup of tea is...!
Then as we were having our meal together
I just asked him,why he would not let me cut my nails..?
For,I have no choice,but to obey
I wiped my fingers on his blue cloth with comfort.
With sudden bright grave dark eyes he smiled at me,
Took my hand on his and gifted a piece of white cloth.

Ann, what I did not wish to tell, you asked..
Now as you have forgotten every thing
I tell you,what I wanted to tell you on that day.
Yes,…..that white piece mean so much to me..
That blue cloth mean so much to me..
And so are my nails…..
….and that heavenly secret,
perhaps the gift of separation …..
a golden thread mean so much to me.
I wish to stay alive with these sentiments,
And the decision that I shall not follow him,has not come quickly.

Get in touch with me Ann..don’t ring up or mail
Come in to my home…it is the same one in our native place.
You and I had no chances to talk ,
Let’s light the candle and settle ourselves.


Yours Lee..!

I TELL MYSELF THAT.....

About 4 this morning..
I dreamt it drizzling.
Then I jumped out... and gazed out door
pretending that I had not been ther.
...but with a dread full fear I realised that
the windows of my mind were open to the world.

Clouds are high up..
I feel to reach out and touch ...but...
"how can there be' buts '...if love continues ?
my heart grew quite and no longer prayed.

I can see your face in all my dreams
and could see me standing aside from the fencing
with a plain white silk gown ,
which I did not understand.
I longed to spring from my bed and run to her
but in my loneliness I had grown conscious
demanding attention which Iam trying for..
so I tell myself that now all is changed.