Cheers to a new year and another chance for us to get it right...!

"I made no resolutions for the New Year...

The habit of making plans...

.... of criticizing

.... sanctioning

and molding my life

.... is too much of a daily event for me."

( Your ) Child's Relationship with Relatives.......!

Days back my son said,"Mom...I don't like this Aunty"

"Do you find that your Relatives attract more problems and upsets than you feel you deserve"...???

Relationship between Relatives affect the Social and Personal adjustment of young children..

The relationship of children often tends to be pleasant,though there are occational quarrels.

If Relatives are given authority to control children in the absence of parents,

it will be unpleasant for the children..

As a result their Relationship tends to be frictional and unpleasant.......!

I said Myself that....

Though I am so happily married to ma mamma's wish
and we had been happy together all night
Last night I dreamt her sewing a little frock
lucky again to enter into ma colourful days...!

Eat and drink and sleep with mamma,
eyes closed as though slept,
and open wide in reproach
and listen to her fairy tales
the promises and love they hide...!

Now I have to be alone
and see for myself why,
she has not changed,if I have..
Yes, loneliness is what I feel here

Such cracks distract me and I record them.....!

To night as I open my windowpane
I feel the raindrops cold upon my face
and the wind blow through my night gown..
a flurry of emotions rush in
I lie beneath them with pleasure
and I comfort myself with their warmth and colour...

I shall be back.....I said myself.....!

A Cup of Tea ..

The past is bad but not so dull

took off the smile but not the grace..
Now Iam awake with no pains
and if you need me
move from behind and stand beside me..
Sure, I offer a Cup of Tea
a drink made by hot water to leaves
and wish to bestow a shower of words..
“Do not let people take you in..
Do not let feelings fall on you..
Do not consume much worries..
Do not chase the shadow..
Shocks never erase such pains.
You are so wet that water is dripping,
Do not mind it..
Do not feel it..
Do not waste your emotions..
Do not fall so easily..
For all reasons you are respected..”
Come on..
I look out from this window
and you from the other..
take a sip and gulp your pains,
and gaze in to the light rain -
falling in fine droplets..
never though they cry for you
gives a flash of smile with grace….!

hei....its Raining...!!!

Nobody can cheer-up me except the Rain..

Now my heart is fillied with Love and Memories..

Iam the Drizzle...and U the Rain..

Drizzle would shrink to Rain....

I wish to be your prisoner..

Now every thing as per ma wish..!

...Loud Mouth...

Have you noticed how much easier it is to give words of wisdom and advice to your kids rather than follow them for yourself..?

My dream has always been to see my kids hugging and kissing at each other .

That seemed too much to handle ,

So I broke it down in to some thing simpler;

"Smiling at each other. "

One day......Good Grief,,

I heard their Loud Mouth...

....Dad, Mom.....we too expect the same...

The best security blanket a child can have is parents who respect each other....!

....moments.....!

Oh... Oh...!

My Dad always manages a box of chocolates on my Birthday..

and I get a gift too..

It usually has Barbie -

he doesn't go for games and flowers..

then we will slip comfortably in to a Candle light Dinner with myself, young brother, dad and mom....

Finding time to enjoy with kids is becoming harder and harder.

The leisure you spend dropped and the average work week jumped..

The tendest moments in a parent hood can be strange and incongruous.They are not something inscribed in your Diary,but they beat Fairy tales and Stories..

Here is your part..

This is where you honour yourself by doing something special to acknowledge life's memories..!

...bring me solutions....

hei, ma...

lise is....

I hang around....

heart of a rose...

oath..

heii...heii...heii....!

I sit lonely...

.....thinking of you....!

let it rain...

oh ma..

Child and the Family..

What is your relationship with your child..?
Is it one of lack or abundance..?
Which ever it is, what ever you focus on is exactly what you will get back.
Early Childhood should be a happy period in a child's life.
It is important,otherwise the habit of being unhappy can be developed,which is hard to change.
Today husband and wife work in separate jobs sharing their income.
The family provides social and psychological stability.
It is a small group with strong emotional attachments.
Children develop their basic personality,characteristics,language,culture and how to relate to other people through the experiences provided in the family.
The Family is the basic unit of society which consists of two or more adults living together in a house with kids.

The Family that prays together stays together..

Joys and Sorrows of Parenthood..

Ask yourself 'Where is your parent hood..?'

Take an honest look at, whether your parenthood is a friend or a foe.
If its a friend, spend some quiet time this listening to what your still small voice is trying to tell you and reflect upon it.
The experiences that parents share with their children play a vital role in the development of their child.
Any mal-adjustment between parent and child relationship forms as emotional disturbance in the child.
It is normal to find changes in parent child relationship in early childhood due to many causes..
Three vital stages of parents role in development of their child in Early Childhood are :
1.Parents have to face the responsibilities of Parenthood.
2.When the child is an infant parents should cater to the needs of the child, make the environment such that the child confides in the parents.
3.When the child is at PreSchool stage parents must prepare the child for seperation and help him to establish himself as an individual in the world.

Enjoy Parenthood...give our children social and psychological stability.